Chiradeep

Unwanted Pregnancy? Tips To Survive: Part - II



Posted: Tuesday, September 07, 2010

by Chiradeep
e-Counseling

ABSTAIN: Why ABSTINENCE? 

I remember I have to fulfill one promise I’ve made to my friends on SearchWarp. I had started a series on ‘ Unwanted pregnancy & the tips to Survive-I’ exactly 1 year 142 days ago and I am supposed to extend it as advised by my commentators & friends, as it was just like an introduction on a vast topic of Abstinence from sex & pregnancy. Friends! I apologize for the delay.

I read everybody’s comments and majority of them wanted to explain the meaning of ABSTAIN, which was actually the key word of that article and of the whole topic itself. But my attention was drawn to one particular comment which I thought should be the best subject to start with.

Mr. Drunken Mystic’ wrote:   “But you forgot to mention what complications these pills create in the metabolism. One my friends was on these pills for years and suddenly realised it wasn't doing good to her system, physically and mentally. These pills in fact aggravated her temper all the more. Nice information." I really appreciate his comment.

So I decided I will talk about ‘Why abstinence’ first, then I will jump to ‘what is abstinence’ though it should have been discussed first.   My purpose behind going on a backward motion is to show the failures of all the methods when we compare them to the best method of Abstinence in the beginning.

Let’s not waste anymore time.

I did little research on the web on the side effects of these contraceptive pills. All the articles and journals on the web say the same thing which I have quoted here.

 

The various side effects of Contraceptive Pills are as follows:

    1.   Nausea & Vomiting

    2.        Headache, Dizziness & Fatigue

    3.        Tenderness of Breast Muscles

    4.        Irregularity in Periods

    5.   Mood Swings

    6.   Gaining Weight

    7.   Changes of Hormonal levels in the body

These are some of the commonly found side-effects for swallowing the ‘wonder pill’ as called lovingly.

But sometime it gets worse. Swallowing of this wonder pill sometimes has deadly side-effects like increased high BP, clots in the blood and even heart attack.

Don’t you think I have valid reasons to urge you all females, to ‘ABSTAIN' instead of swallowing the wonder pill? Why to take chances and risk ourselves when we are aware of the dangers?

I don’t like to lengthen this article much this time but will conclude by putting forward these simple yet straight forward thought provoking facts before all to think and act likewise, till I come back next, to discuss more on ‘why abstinence.’ May God bless!
Chiradeep Patra, is an Accountant in a Non-Govt Organization in India. He is married and blessed with a beautiful wife by his side.

He is an author and have written many articles for webzines and magazines.

He is a Psychological Counselor who deals with the following matters: Stress Management, Teenage & Adolescent Problems, Love, Crush & Relationship Problems, Depression & Anxiety Problem (not clinical), Personality Building & Development, Healthy Mental Living Matters, Spiritual & Biblical Matters etc.

He owns a website: www.asmideep.webs.com

Contacting e-Mail: chiradeepp@gmail.com

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Top-level comments on this article: (4 total)
» left by Ella Camp
1 year 259 days ago.
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I'm sure this article will be most helpful to a lot of younger people- I'm sure they will thank you- as do I Always- Ella
» left by Chiradeep 1 year 259 days ago.
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Thanks Ella for that sweet comment. I feel sad to see young people suffering.
 
Regards,
 
CP
» left by Linda DeWitt
1 year 259 days ago.
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I think this is a good article to present to the young people of today. So many of them have no idea of the importance of abstinence. Will be looking for your next article. , Linda D
» left by Chiradeep 1 year 259 days ago.
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Thanks Linda for your comment and for the time you gave to visit here...
» left by Dianne Lehmann
1 year 258 days ago.
137 fans.
Hi Chiradeep.
 
No method, except abstinence, is totally fool-proof for preventing unwanted pregnancy. That alone should recommend it as the method of choice ... in a perfect world. Unfortunately, our world is not perfect. :)
 
Excellent advice.
 
Hugs, Dianne
» left by Chiradeep 1 year 258 days ago.
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Thanks for the comment Dianne. Thanks for rating this article as Excellent advice. Regards
» left by Asmita - The Candles
1 year 258 days ago.
12 fans.
Nice tips...I rated it high...
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