Unwanted Pregnancy? Tips To Survive: Part - I
Posted: Friday, April 17, 2009
by Chiradeep
e-Counseling
(Read this article fully - then conclude)
Contraceptive pills are really helpful. In the TV many Ads come regarding these pills. For last few months they are showing that even after sexual intercourse if you take a pill within a certain period of time you can avoid pregnancy easily. And there wont be any unwanted pregnancy to bother you. Wow! What a relief to the teenage girls and their parents.
You all must be thinking what happened to Chiradeep, what happens to his value system, but if you see the world around you, all are very happy because of these inventions. The problems of mankind are vanishing one by one because of these inventions. Now they can live happily ever after. This is the value system of todays world whether you accept it or not, doesnt matter.
If you have read, up to this and close the window then you will take a very wrong message. So lets continue reading it.
I am dead against when these pills are used outside a marriage. Even within marriage also, using contraceptive pills is a questionable for so many. We as married couple dont use it. But still then, uses of these pills within marriage are some how acceptable. But outside marriage? It is wrong, sinful, awful. It may rescue from unwanted pregnancy but it wont save you from the wrath of God almighty. One day you will have to pay the price for it.
Lastly, pregnancy survival tips is (not are), 1. Abstain, 2. Abstain & 3. Abstain from pre-marital sex. Very simple isnt it?
My young friends! Please do not follow after the deadly pleasures of this world today, just ABSTAIN.
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More commentsyup, cause this advise has worked SOOOOO WELL so far with peopel today! lets just keep saying this and maybe we can have the AIDS rate get to 3/5 insted just just 1/5 people!Thanks for the comment...Anony....
I can attest to the fact that pre marital sex only leads to heart break and it may not come back to haunt you for many years, but sooner or later it will. I only wish that young people of today could be saved of that heartache and grief I experienced, but given my situation at the time I'm not so sure I would have listened to anyone then either. Thank God that God is in control and when we turn to Him he is there to love us to God health. Good article.Thank you,Linda DThanks you so much for that beautiful comment Linda. God bless you.
Good article. The youth today are in bad shape but we have to help them out.Thanks sweetie...Thanks a lot...God bless ...
Hi Chiradeep - judging by the amount of unwanted pregnancies we see, I think another approach on the matter is needed - it may help to teach people what the meaning of the word "Abstain" means instead of "pre-marital sex" because something tells me as a another unwanted baby is born, is that the meaning of the word pre-marital sex is not swaying any thoughts over lustKeep safeKacyKacy! Thanks a lot for your advice. I very much appreciate it. I will keep that in mind next time. God bless you.
Hi Chiradeep. I love your passion for God's truth and God's standard. They are given for our protection because he loves us. Good job, but I agree with many of the other comments - I am glad to see you have decided to expand on this. Give others another dimension and tender side of why God wants us to wait until marriage. I am looking foward to the read! God bless you as you continue to shine for the Almighty! TeresaHi sister! How are you? Did you get the fresh publication of CANDLES that I sent you through email? And yes! I will surely humble enough to what others suggested me regarding the article. I will definitely expand the research and write-up. Thanks a lot for your concern.HI Chiradeep! How are my dear brother? I did get a copy. I haven't had a chance to read it from cover to cover as of yet, but I will very soon!Blessings to you. Have a great day! Teresa
Great article. Well done.I think marage before sex solves all these problems. the bottom line is WAIT!Is it marage or mirage or marriage...? ha ha ha...Just kidding friend. What you said is perfect. Thanks buddy.Sorry... Brain dies after five. Ha ha ha.
I totally agree with you, Chiradeep..Like some ppl here are saying, if you don't blv in God's wrath and all that, at least think of the no. of unwanted babies that are born due to pre-marital sex.Let me share a story with you. The business-superstar Steve Jobs was a child born to his mother before her marriage. So she left him in an orphanage. Jobs' parents, Paul and Clara Jobs adopted him frm there. Imagine what wd happen if they hadn't...For the ones who are talking about the effectiveness of the 'adstinence' advice in controlling aids, I'd like to ask this: what effectiveness of everything else can you find any evidence for, today?Thanks for the wonderful article, chiradeep...the one quality that makes your articles stand apart is the fact that you TRULY BELIEVE in whatever you write. That's evident from your articles. Keep up the good work! :)Sulagna! the problem of today's world is they don't understand YES or NO. THey understand twisted things. They believe in unncessary reasoning. In my life I have never done that. I was just obedient to the standards given to me. I don't have to reason when my God says this is the standard. And I beleive that when my good God says 'NO', His motive behind is to save me from some or other adverse effect. I accept it without reasoning but just trusting my lovely God. That has allowed me to be what I am today even if I am a conginital heart patient. Thanks and God Bless you ....
Chiradeep, I apologize for taking so long to get here but I made it. I'm happy I did! You have my full attention and support. I look forward to Part-II. I agree with you wholeheartedly and have enjoyed reading the other comments.
The message we spread in our Relationship Education classes is:
Abstinence isn't about not having sex. It's about saving sex for someone who is willing to give back to you by making a lifelong commitment in marriage.
Abstinence is the only sure way to protect your body, mind, and heart from the various consequences of sexual activity. It is the safest, healthiest lifestyle and one of the best ways to prepare for a healthy future marriage.
Whether they are 13 or 31, atheist or devout Christian, it's our message.
Personally, I haven't chosen abstinence, I've chosen Christ. Once upon a time, I chose differently. I've grown in my relationship with Him. He and I are both pleased. *warm smile*
Keep the glow in your candles!
Warmly,
AvisThanks a lot Avis. Buddy you are just marvelous in your feedback. The way you defined ABSTINENCE is just fabulous. God bless you and may you be used our Saviour & Lord more widely & meningfully. Thanks again.Candles, thank you for the warmth and care in your comments. I would love to take credit for the definition of abstinence used but cannot. That definition is the reason we chose this curriculum and did not reinvent the wheel by writing/creating our own program. I appreciate the encouragement. Our Savior has you in His care and loves that you are seeking after Him. We all should and many of us do.
Hugging life with Love,
AvisDear sis in Christ! Just tell me who can be a better person to comment on this article than you? You're a professional in this field. So your comments is far more acceptable & worthy. God bless you.
But you forgot to mention what complications these pills create in the metabolism. :) One my friends was on these pills for years and suddenly realised it wasn't doing good to her system, physically and mentally. These pills in fact aggravated her temper all the more. :) Nice information.
Last night I had unprotected sex. I don't want to be pregnant.Does contraceptive pills are really helpful to prevent unwanted pregnancy? I am so scared. Please help me....
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