Chiradeep

Are Sexual Behaviours Of People Normal Or Abnormal Today?



Posted: Monday, March 30, 2009

by Chiradeep
e-Counseling



Sex is a precious gift from the God to the married couples. When the man was all alone God created woman, a suitable counterpart for him, and presented sex, as the most wonderful wedding gift ever anybody has given as yet. Today after thousand years of creation when the marriages take place, God gives the same wonderful gift to every newly wed couple as their wedding gift, to be used only by them alone.

This is very natural and normal when the married couples use this gift. But when it is used outside a marriage or in a strange manner it becomes unnatural and abnormal. Yes! Devil has destroyed and spoilt the sanctity and purity of this wonderful gift of God. Even the biological scientists, sociologists, sexologists and psychologists have pointed out some functions of the sexual drive and its mode of seeking gratification as abnormal and unnatural. And it is very important for us to be aware of all these things. Some of the abnormal sexual behaviors are as under:

Fetishism This is a kind of sexual behaviour by which the individual derives sexual pleasure from an inanimate object.

Voyeurism This is watching other persons sexual organ or looking at others getting undressed.

Exhibitionism In this kind of behaviour the individual gets pleasure in showing his/her own sexual organ to other person.

Sadism In this behaviour the person gets sexual pleasure by inflicting pain on the sexual partner.

Machoism - In this behaviour the person gets sexual pleasure in being punished by the sexual partner.

Troilism Is when the sexual activity is undertaken in the presence of others. Analism Using anus for sexual activity is called Analism.

Zoophilia When an individual uses animals for sexual pleasure.

Frottage In which the individual gets pleasure by pressing sex organ against other persons body.

Geronto When the individual prefers sexual activity with older people.

Wife Swapping When couples exchange their wives to have sexual activity.

Corophilia This is when the individual gets pleasure by handling feces.

Transvestism This kind of sexual behaviour by which the individual seeks pleasure through wearing garments of the opposite sex.

Pedophilia in this type the individual uses children for sexual pleasure.

Incest This kind of sexual behaviour the individual have sex with blood relations.

Homosexual in this kind of behaviour the individual keep sexual activities with the same sex instead of opposite sex.

Nasophilia an erotic obsession with abnormal noses.

Acousticophilia a sexual obsession with the sound of a particular language etc.

All these abnormal sexual behaviors and disorders are diseases and need to be cured. If its really serious please see a doctor and ask God to give you the strength to get rid of all these.

Don't make Gods wonderful and beautiful gift so ugly.

Chiradeep Patra, is an Accountant in a Non-Govt Organization in India. He is married and blessed with a beautiful wife by his side.

He is an author and have written many articles for webzines and magazines.

He is a Psychological Counselor who deals with the following matters: Stress Management, Teenage & Adolescent Problems, Love, Crush & Relationship Problems, Depression & Anxiety Problem (not clinical), Personality Building & Development, Healthy Mental Living Matters, Spiritual & Biblical Matters etc.

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» left by Teresa Ortiz
3 years 43 days ago.
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Hi Chiradeep, indeed these behaviors cheapen the beauty of what God has created. I am embarrassed to say, but I think the "Frottage" does not belong on the list. Seems a requirement as part of the process, don't you think? Maybe you meant outside of the realm of the marriage bed?
 
Good article on such an intimate subject. Blessings to you! Teresa
» left by Chiradeep 3 years 43 days ago.
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Thanks Teresa for reading and commenting. You're right! Within marriage that's ok. But the obsession of it is abnormal. If one spouse only likes to involve in fondling and nothin else then its a disorder. So OBSESSION is the key word. I didnt include 'Oralism'. Its a disorder when a spouse only like oral sex. Anyway hope everybody will understand what the psychologists intend to say.
» left by Swapna Nanda
3 years 43 days ago.
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Very good article. Keep writting and God bless you . Swapna
» left by Chiradeep 3 years 43 days ago.
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Thanks for the comment...God bless you...
» left by Val Silver
3 years 41 days ago.
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Well I learned some new vocabulary here. I think I'm getting to the Geronto age, not sure that's such a bad thing!
» left by Chiradeep 3 years 41 days ago.
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When I was doing the course I was shocked to see all these myself. I learnt these vocabularies during my course. Anyway thanks for the comment.
» left by Lorrie Davids
3 years 41 days ago.
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Nasophilila? I can honestly say I've never heard of this one. Good information, Chiradeep. I agree with Teresa about the frottage. Also, the One who created sex gave us a guidebook. It is sad to see the God's ideas so twisted.
» left by Chiradeep 3 years 41 days ago.
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Did you see what I commented back to Teresa? Let me share it again. Frottage within marriage is fine. But when it becomes an obsession and the person concerned doesnt want to do anything else except that (Frottage: pleasure pressing sex organ against other persons body) then thats a disorder. I hope you got my point. God bless you Lorrie.
» left by Karla Sutton
3 years 40 days ago.
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Interesing article. I would have to say people are much different then they were even 10 years ago. There are sex clubs, swinger clubs, and many more bizarre places where people can go to do bizarre sexual acts. Good article.
» left by Chiradeep 3 years 40 days ago.
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Yes friend! You're so right. The things have been changed completely. Sin is not poking anymore. It has become a way of life. Thanks for the comment. And God bless you.
» left by Deborah Hall-Branch
3 years 40 days ago.
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Hi my friend. Good article. I remember complaining as a young girl about my mother being so strict. Today, nothings sacred any more. Our little girls have exchanged doll babies for real babies and our boys are drafted into wars in their very own backyards. The beauty of their wedding night has been sold for an ungodly often deadly bliss. When I glance around now and see how open minded our world has become it makes me appreciate my very strict mother.
 
Deborah
» left by Chiradeep 3 years 40 days ago.
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Debo! You're right. Our Godly values have been sold out in the market. Even I now can proudly say that I am brought up properly by my family members and parents. Thanks for the comment. God bless you.
» left by Asmita - The Candles
3 years 39 days ago.
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Very deadly! Good article.
» left by Chiradeep 3 years 37 days ago.
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Thanks sweetie! Yes Its deadly.
» left by Connor Davidson
3 years 39 days ago.
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You know you make me physically sick. I am a believer in chastity and agree with you on all your points. Thanks.
» left by Chiradeep 3 years 37 days ago.
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Con I became sick when I learned all these in my course book. Anyway Thanks for commenting.
» left by Sulagna Dasgupta
3 years 21 days ago.
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Look, you're talking about curing these abnormalities and there are porn companies everywhere catering to every kind of twisted sexual need.
 
I'm an anti-porn activist and have read a lot about the porn business and how extremely harmful it is to addicts and how easy it is to become an addict with new strip clubs coming up everyday...believe me, with all the craze for settling in the US/UK among Asians, you have no idea HOW LUCKY we Indians are, that something as obviously harmful and corrupting as porn is not legal in our country!
 
To all you pro-porn ppl, I have 2 requests to start with:
 
1. show me one country where it's legal for children to watch porn.
 
2. show me one country where less than 70-80% of the children have used porn.
 
If you can't- your system is not working, is it? So you must have been getting something wrong, right?
» left by Chiradeep 3 years 21 days ago.
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Thanks Sulagna! You're so right! How it diverts the mind of young, young adults & even adults from true values to filthy stuffs that nobody understands it. It is really sad. I hate when govt. makes these filthy things legal. God bless you.
» left by LucyAnn
from Portland
3 years 12 days ago.
Do you know what I hate? When the government gets involved with morality. America was built upon the distinctiom between church and state. This sacred right needs to be protected. Disagree with homosexuality all you wish but what gives you any justification to tell others how to live theirs. Laws prohibit a person from harming another. What harm comes from what a man or woman does behind closed doors? This is especially interesting coming from an Indian man who, given 50 years in the past, would not have been legally able to marry anyone outside his race. That is discrimination and so is this. Try to suspend yourself from the stereotypes, homosexuals can practice chastity, monogamy and one partner. Those fighting against gay marriage are fighting their ability to participate in these practices.
 
And Deborah, these places you described, those did exist ten years ago. They existed a hundred years ago and ten thousand years ago. Simply because they are being reported on now does not mean they never existed. Teen pregnancy rates are 30% lower today than they were in 1990 (according to the CDC). Too often do mature members of society look at the younger generation and shake their heads. But maybe things are getting better. Look at the statistics. Hate crimes are down, pregnancy is down, alcohol deaths are down. This generation has the potential to change the world and fix how previous one have threatened it
 
This article greatly disappointed me. I hope you post a response and not simply delete this, so we can contribute to the true marketplace of ideas.
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